Welcome Vickii to he site/forums. Good you could join us. Well making frineds is your choice but todo so you just visit another user profile page and at the top you see see a list of icons. One should say "Invite" Click that and then you can also add a tag to say hi, something or nothing. And then jus twiat for them to accept it. To update your status al you have todo is click the icons in the tool box under your ava to be able to editchange your info. Why do so? meh who knows. For fun. For no reason. Because you just want to. Any reason works. Anywho. Hope that helps ya a bit. Enjoy your stay.