Lately I feel like I might be a stereotype of Japanese nerds for several reasons and wanted the opinions of other anime fans.
For one, I have been obsessed with a certain character (Canal Volphied from Lost Universe) in a lighthearted, asexual way. This is probably in due to this character's influence helping me deal with some deep, personal problems that had plagued me for years, and as such I am grateful to the character and the staff of the show.
Second, after spending my money on food, rent, electricity etc., I often spend on movies, anime or video games.
Often times, I can only interact with my real life buddies with my phone or over the internet. Am I being too hard on myself?